love story读后感

\"What can you say about a twenty-five-year-old girl who died?

That she was beautiful. And brilliant. That she loved Mozart and Bach. And the Beatles. And me.\"

第一次看到电影版里的这段话，就留下了很深的印象。事隔多年，终于买到了原版的小说，句法简单的这段开头的独白，依旧是那么让人难忘。 我在想，要是有一天我死了，会不会也有个男人像男主人公一样独自坐在有雪的公园里，孤独得让人心疼。反正我也恰好喜欢Mozart, Bach和Beatles。

这是一个老套却经典的爱情故事。喜欢Jenny，喜欢她的优雅，喜欢她的坚强和俏皮。她或许并不是那么美，却很迷人。

一直对美国的6,70年代情有独钟。冷战，毒品，摇滚乐，民权运动，越战，性解放等等来自政治、文化的各种浪潮，塑造了一个颓废又疯狂、自由而绚烂的时代。所以小说中这样简单清新的爱情，在这样动荡的社会背景下，才会显得格外美好而珍贵了吧。

我忽然觉得自己挺老的了。想起那首著名的电影插曲，想起小时候坐在收音机前陪爸爸听西洋老歌的情景。回忆总是弥漫着复古的气息。为何书里面怀旧而感伤的氛围会那么使我动容? 也许是因为我是这样一个过时和念旧的女孩子吧。

爱情是迷醉又甜蜜的怦然心动。爱情是灵魂与肉体彼此交融与吸引的瞬间。爱情是你永远不必对我说抱歉。 Never be sorry.

Love means never having to say that you're sorry...

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After watching the ‘love story’, I realize more about love. In the beginning of the film, the chief actor and the chief actress know each other in the library and their love just starts. In my opinion, love is a process that lovers from acquaintance to know each other well. But nowadays, some people fall in love with someone just for his or her appearance or fortune, few and few just for the feeling. It is the pure love in the film that moves so many people. In the film, although the chief actor ‘s father loves him very much, but he did it in a wrong way. Just like some fathers in China who spoil their children, so that’s why the ‘rich second generation’ exist. They depend on their parents’ power and don’t make effort like the case ‘my father is Li Gang’. When the chief actor refuse the help of his father to get into the law school and to live a new live by himself, I was moving ,because Our Chinese’s children just lack this kind of independence. But in common, parents and children didn’t know how to show their loves to each other. That’s the reason why the generation exist, so we must learn how to communication. In the film, the sentence which impressed me most is ‘love means never having to say you’re sorry’. It’s true, love doesn’t need to explain instead it needs to be felt in heart. All in all, this film give us a good example of love.

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小说《love story》读后感

小说是于今天凌晨1点30在一种无法言说的极其微妙的身体和心理状态下读完的。虽然自知看完之后可能难以入眠，但是还是坚持了下来。于是大清早放弃早锻赶紧记录下所

思所想。说实话，看了小说开篇第一句话What can you say about a twenty-five-year-old girl who died? 就很容易对整部小说有了个大致的思路上的认识，至少这种倒叙式的手法让我放弃了对结局的预测，而故事的发展和题材其实在当今这个被各种雷同的言情偶像剧充斥的时代里已不算新颖。但是其质朴的语言、不单纯的人物关系以及其特定的年代背景依然让我对它万分崇敬。先来说说小说的语言。质朴平淡、生活化、口语化是我对整部小说的通篇印象，当然这其中也不乏非常细致入微的描写（比如男女双方见家长的桥段作者用了不少笔墨去描写双方家庭的环境背景以形成强烈的对比），但也就是这样风格的文字让我在开篇不适应之后很快找到了读小说应有的感觉和速度（尽管当中有太多生词被我忽略）。小说以男主人公的视角记述了整个恋爱的经历，开篇时男女主人公之间的斗嘴以及男主人公心理活动的描写无不生动反映出恋爱中人的心理和活动状态，中篇男女主人公因为生活理念的巨大差异而产生的吵架让人看出了私奔后生活辛酸的点点滴滴，而结局时他们在床头的对话又不得不让人为之动容。我很喜欢这篇文章的语言风格，尤其是在通篇垃圾话横飞中有那么几句富于哲理性的话语。比如

Harvard is like Santa ’s Christmas bag. You can stuff any crazy kind of toy into it. But when the holiday’s over, they shake you out. 又比如那句最经典的Love means not ever having to say you’re sorry.

我想这对于正在或即将开始恋爱生活的我们而言是极具启迪性的。 再来谈谈人物的关系。 小说名为love story，小说主线也确实是按着这个题目去发展的，但是我对于题目中

love的解读可能还要加上长辈对于子女之爱。毫无疑问，女方之父Phil愿意放手女儿是一种极其无私而且冒险的爱；但是文章除却男女主人公感天动地的恩爱之外最大的看点莫过于Oliver Barrett父子之间微妙的关系。如同很多大贵族一样，父亲的过于成功和过分严格让儿子从小叛逆成性，致使双方无法正常地表达一种爱，以致于表面上看起来水火不容。但是

Jennifer的出现和努力改变了这一局面，挽回了这场亲情的决裂，而当文末看到儿子抱着亲痛哭时我们在感动之余心头不免荡起一丝欣慰，这故事极具总算不致太悲。

读完love story，感觉自己对爱情有了稍许更深层的理解。尽管我们的生活未必会经历如此波折巨变，尽管小说中有一些稍显夸张的成分，但是男女主人公对爱情的厮守和执着确是发人深省也是值得我们借鉴的。