Life is like dumplings, time is skin, experience is filling. Ups and downs are all taste, perseverance and confidence is thedumpling skin folds, life will inevitably be hard squeeze, was boiling about, a man bites a bit, if not experienced, hard topretend to be mature, there will always be betrayed. \"This paragraph of words, is not my original, is a comment on the life ofCui Yongyuan. To my present experience is not worthy to talk about life, I want to talk about the life of each person's life isvery important for four years of College life. For I stand here today to tell you the key to spend four years of university life, isdrive a duck onto a perch. As I prepared my resume, I discovered that there was no such thing as a badge of honor that Iwould have to say. I think it was a full four years of life. In fact, looking back, if God give me a chance to come again, I think,my four years of life should also be so, because the experience of college life, the master of knowledge, I have done theirown efforts. Some people say: the University of first grade often do not know their own do not know, the University in the firststep into a step, know that they do not know, the University in the three grade, do not know themselves know, the universitygrade four know you know\". In fact, since I have not been able to thoroughly understand the implied meaning, but the vaguecan feel a bit, is from the sky fell on the ground, from the vision of the ideal to reality. Many people do not adapt to college life,to a large extent, by the Internet or some of the magazine on the University of life novel misleading. Many writers describe thelife of the university is to make fun of the tone, to the reader to describe a ideal university in his heart. By this misguided, thereis an ideal picture of your college life before you step into a university. With this beautiful, after entering the University, a lot ofpeople will be confused for a while, the full enjoyment of the sudden freedom and novelty. But after a day in class, after study,this passion slowly subsided, began to enter the stage of confusion, Miss high school students, Miss high school life. Most ofyou are in the stage of \"don't know\" and \"know you don't know\confusion and depression. And this is also the time to grow up and down to the ground to the transition to know you know theonly way. If you think there is no direction, there is no need to worry, in fact, this is normal. A lot of people in the Universitybefore the formation of such a concept, that the students in high school is the most pure, the university can not be frank witheach other. I had a similar idea. In fact, the students get along with and dormitories, in fact, this concept is wrong, at least withyou elbow classmate for the, with the dormitory students is not suitable for. In this age, some of the characters are mostlyangular. So that one day you graduate, think back to his college classmates, you will find, in fact, now the spat is not worthmentioning. Now, I want to talk about my college life, I hope as an example, can give you a little thinking and inspiration. Myfreshman, like a lot of people, is in a way that has no direction. Is to go to school every day to go to school, at night to study,and sometimes on Sunday, sometimes it is to go to the study room in the classroom. Because in addition to self-study, thensimply do not know what else to do. Later also often go to the library, because the library has too many resources, alwaysfeel so many books on there, do not use it, too wasted. So I'm quite familiar with the library. Also some people have not beento the library for four years, I do not know what kind of, I now have such a dormitory students. Although every day somethingto do, in fact, my heart is very confused, because, after all, is a university, even if I put it came as a high four, after all, after all,not a high school. High school has a college entrance examination, is always the goal, but now there is no direction. Alsothink college life should be colorful, rich and colorful, should not just to learn, in order to test a good result and so spent fouryears. So give yourself a little clear idea. Obviously, as a student, learning is the first, but not the only one. So I started to goto the students, the weather will be good to go to visit. Very clearly remember, a 10.1 holiday, has been in the classroom, tothe last two days, it is not to sit, push on the car, to find a map of Wuhan, with several magazines, sitting on the lake, a book.Mood is not so depressed. Around the school, I have been to East Lake Road, almost all of a person, while in front of the mapaccording to the road, while walking along the lake in East Lake, until a circle. If you think life is boring, it is not the
University's fault, the University gave you full freedom, you want to do is to use this freedom, fully explore their own life.⼈⽣就像饺⼦，岁⽉是⽪，经历是馅。酸甜苦辣皆为滋味，毅⼒和信⼼正是饺⼦⽪上的褶皱，⼈⽣中难免被狠狠挤⼀下，被开⽔煮⼀下，被⼈咬⼀下，倘若没有经历，硬装成熟，总会有露馅的时候。\"这⼀段话，不是我的原创，是崔永元评论⼈⽣的⼀段话。以我现在的经历还不配和⼤家谈⼈⽣，我要谈的是对于在座的每个⼈的⼀⽣都⾄关重要的四年⼤学⽣活。
对于今天让我站在这⾥给⼤家讲如何度过关键的四年⼤学⽣活，其实有点赶鸭⼦上架。就在我准备简历的时候，才发现，竟然没有任何可以让我吹嘘⼀番的证书，奖章之类的任何被称为荣誉的东西，除了⾃认为满满的四年的⽣活感悟。其实回过头想⼀想，如果上天给我⼀个再来⼀次的机会，我想，我的这四年⽣活应该也还是这样，因为对于⼤学⽣活该经历的活动，该掌握的知识，我都尽了⾃⼰的努⼒。
有⼈说：⼤学⼀年级往往“不知道⾃⼰不知道”，⼤学⼆年级就进了⼀步\"知道⾃⼰不知道\"，⼤学三年级时\"不知道⾃⼰知道\"，⼤学四年级\"知道⾃⼰知道\"。
其实，⾄今我也没能吃透其中蕴含的意味，但是模模糊糊能体会到⼀点，就是从天上落到地上，从憧憬理想回到现实。很多⼈之所以不适应⼤学的⽣活，很⼤程度上是受到了上或者杂志上的⼀些关于⼤学⽣活⼩说的误导。很多作者描写⼤学⽣活都是以调侃的语⽓，向读者描绘⼀个他⼼中理想的⼤学。受到这种误导，在每个⼈踏进⼤学之前会对⾃⼰的⼤学⽣活有⼀个理想的描绘。怀着这份美好，进⼊⼤学后，很多⼈都会迷糊⼀阵⼦，充分享受突如其来的⾃由和新奇感。但是在⼀天天上课，⾃习后，这种激情慢慢的消退，就开始进⼊迷茫阶段，怀念⾼中同学，怀念⾼中⽣活。
在座的⼤都处在\"不知道⾃⼰不知道\"和\"知道⾃⼰不知道\"阶段，尤其是后者，往往是造成迷茫，困惑和郁闷的根源。⽽这也是慢慢长⼤踏实地的过渡到\"知道⾃⼰知道\"必经阶段。如果你现在觉得没有⽅向，也没必要着急，其实这很正常。
很多⼈在没进⼤学前，就在脑⼦形成这样⼀种观念，认为⾼中的同学之间的感情才是最纯真的，到了⼤学彼此就不能坦诚相待
了。我就有过类似的想法。事实上，随着和宿舍的同学相处，其实这种观念是不对的，⾄少对于和你⼀起朝⼣相处的同班，同宿舍的同学是不适合的。在这种年纪，有的⼤多是是性格上的棱⾓。等你有⼀天毕业了，回头想想⾃⼰的⼤学同学，你就会发现，其实现在的磕磕碰碰根本不值⼀提。
现在⼤体聊聊我的⼤学⽣活，希望作为⼀个个例，能给你们带来⼀点思考和启发。我的⼤⼀和很多⼈⼀样，是茫然没有⽅向的。
就是天天背着书包去上课，晚上去⾃习，周六周⽇有时候也就是跑到⾃习教室⾥。因为除了⾃习，当时根本就不知道还有什么其他事可以做。后来也经常去图书馆，因为图书馆有太多的资源了，总觉得那么多书放在那⾥，不利⽤起来，过于浪费了。所以对图书馆我算是⽐较熟悉的。也有⼈四年都没去过图书馆，不知道⾥⾯什么样，我现在宿舍就有这样⼀个同学。虽然每天都有事可做，事实上⼼⾥却很迷茫，因为毕竟是⼤学，即使我把它当作⾼四来过，毕竟终究不是⾼中。⾼中有⼀个⾼考，始终是努⼒的⽬标，现在却没有⽅向了。也觉得⼤学⽣活应该是五彩缤纷的，丰富多彩的，不应该只是为了学习，为了考个好成绩⽽就这么度过四年。于是给⾃⼰稍微理清了头绪。显然，作为学⽣，学习是⾸要的，但是不是的。于是开始去参加学⽣会，天⽓好的时候会骑车出去逛。很清楚的记得，⼀次10.1假期，⼀直在⾃习教室⾥，到了最后两天，实在坐不住了，就推上车，找了⼀份武汉地图，带上⼏本杂志，坐在湖边，看看书。⼼情也不是那么郁闷了。学校周围，到东湖的路我⼏乎都去过，每次就是⼀个⼈，⼀边对着地图照路，⼀边⾛，直到沿着东湖的湖间道转⼀圈。如果觉得⽣活很枯燥，这不是⼤学的错，⼤学给了你充分的⾃由，你要做的是利⽤好这种⾃由，充分发掘⾃⼰的⽣活。