Can College Students Get Married?
There is no denying that it is a hotly debated topic today whether college students should be allowed to get married. Many years ago, it was illegal for college students to get married. The ban was lifted by some universities on students getting married. it was believed that college students were not suitable to get married.
But now, the law has changed a few years ago, considering the teenagers gets mature earlier in the modern world, the law has changed the legal age to get married. So the college students can marry today.
To this people’s attitudes differ sharply. Some hold the positive view. They say that most college students are adults and that it is a basic right for those who have reached the appropriate ages to get married. Besides, they argue that with their biological and emotional needs met, these students will study better. The ban on this means a severe violation of human rights.
Many others, however, hold the negative opposite view. They claim that the university or college is a place to study instead of a community to lead family life. Allowing college students to get married would adversely affect their study. For instance, they would spend too much time attending their family and love, unable to concentrate on their school work.
As far as I am concerned, Weighing the arguments of both sides, I believe that
college students should not be allowed to get married. Though the law admits college students to come to marriage, I think they are not suitable to go that far.
First, the main duty of college students is to study, they should focus on their study, marriage will distract them. Second, Though mostly adults, they are actually immature psychologically. Their wishes to get married are, more often than not, impulses. Marriage means duty, most students are just getting independent, they have a lot of things to learn. Besides, as students, they are not ready to support a family financially.
I advise college students to keep the love relationship, they can enter the marriage when they are working. It is easy to divorce if get married more early, why not think it carefully? What’s more, true love can wait, there is no need to get married urgently. When you have the ability to build a whole family, and the one you love is still waiting for you, which is the right time to get married.
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